darkbookworm13:

naturallyalix:

gallicinvasion:

what she says: “Oh I don’t mind; we can eat anywhere. I’m not picky.”

what she means: “For my entire life, I’ve been called bossy/picky/selfish/arrogant/bitchy for voicing my own opinions and making my views known, so now when someone I care about asks me about what I want, my immediate gut reaction is to defer to the other person’s preference. it’s less of a hassle to capitulate to someone else’s desires than to risk having someone verbally berate me for being truthful about what I want.”

SCREAM THIS FROM THE MOUNTAIN TOP

ugh, this fucking bullshit still gets me, my husband asked me which flavor ice cream I wanted, and I immediately answered this way.

*headdesk*

I’m a 37year old woman… who still does this. And I hate myself for it.